Farewell, Ungrateful Traitor! by John Dryden Farewell, ungrateful traitor! Farewell, my perjur’d swain! Let never injur’d woman Believe a man again. The pleasure of possessing Surpasses all expressing, But ’tis too short a blessing, And love too long a pain. ’Tis easy to deceive us In pity of your pain, But when we love, you leave us To rail at you in vain. Before we have descried it, There is no joy beside it, But she that once has tried it Will never love again. The passion you pretended Was only to obtain, But once the charm is ended, The charmer you disdain. Your love by ours we measure Till we have lost our treasure, But dying is a pleasure When living is a pain. Goodbye, ungrateful traitor Goodbye, my lying lover Never let a hurt woman Believe a man again The pleasure of controlling Is more potent than expression (of love or desire) But control lasts too short And the pain of love lasts too long It is easy to deceive us When we pity you But when we show you love, you leave us And angry, we swear at you Before we understand it (see that you deceived us) It can not make us happy But she that suffered from the deception Will never love again You faked all of the passion So that you could control But once the control has ended The one you controlled, you now think beneath you and treat poorly We measure your love by referencing our own Until we have lost our own But dying is a pleasure When living is a pain